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Why You’re Not Overreacting - Your Nervous System Might Be

You’re Not Too Much. You’re Wired for Protection.

Ever been told you’re “too sensitive” or “overreacting”?
Maybe it was after a small disagreement, a delayed text, or a critical comment. You tried to brush it off, but your body wouldn’t let you.

Tight chest. Racing thoughts. A wave of emotion that felt disproportionate — even confusing.

Here’s what we want you to know at Mind Rewire:
You’re not overreacting. Your nervous system is responding — often from a place of past pain, not present logic.

Emotional Reactions Aren’t Always About Now

At Mind Rewire, we see this daily in therapy:
People reacting not just to the event, but to the meaning their body has attached to it.

  • That ignored message might echo past rejection.
  • That loud tone might resurface childhood fear.
  • That missed boundary might trigger old helplessness.

Trauma and chronic stress don’t just live in memory.
They live in your nervous system — in how your body interprets safety, threat, and worth.

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Meet Your Nervous System: Your Inner Alarm System

Your nervous system constantly scans for danger.
When triggered, it responds using:

  • Fight: Anger, control, frustration
  • Flight: Overworking, anxiety, escape
  • Freeze: Numbness, shutdown, brain fog
  • Fawn: People-pleasing, over-apologizing, shrinking

These are not overreactions. They are survival intelligence — especially common in those healing from trauma, burnout, or chronic emotional invalidation.

You Can’t Logic Your Way Out of a Dysregulated Body

That’s why at Mind Rewire, we use trauma-informed tools that speak to your body, not just your thoughts:

  • Somatic therapy & breathwork to calm overwhelm
  • CBT & NLP to shift internal narratives
  • Vagus nerve activation to restore a sense of safety
  • UNTANGLE to gently unpack patterns through self-reflection

So What Can You Do When You Feel “Too Much”?

At Mind Rewire, our clients learn that healing isn’t about shrinking their emotions — but about creating space to understand them.

  • Pause and ask: “Is this reaction familiar?”
  • Validate your body: “I feel unsafe right now, and that’s okay.”
  • Regulate before you explain: Breathe, ground, or move.
  • Seek support, not suppression: You’re allowed to not do this alone.